Courted

I want to say somewhere: I’ve tried to be forgiving. And yet. There were times in my life, whole years, when anger got the better of me. Ugliness turned me inside out. There was a certain satisfaction in bitterness. I courted it. It was standing outside, and I invited it in.

Selfish people screwing life

You know what your problem is? You get attached, fast. And once you’re attached to someone, you do everything you can to please them and make them happy. It’s never been about what you want, it’s always everyone’s needs before your own. You give out too many chances to people, who quite frankly, do not deserve them. They take advantage of you, and you become a pushover. But you’re okay with that, because they’re in your life and that’s all you ever really wanted. And even if they screw you over, you’ll still be there for them. Because that’s you, that who you are. Once you get attached to someone, they capture your heart and they always have a place there. And that is why it’s so hard for you to let him go.

Waiting for the right person.

Watching you walk out of my life does not make me bitter or cynical about love. But rather makes me realize that if i wanted so much to be with the wrong person, how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along.

BOB Marley

You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect—you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break—her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.

Rise and keep on rising

Let go of your grudges. Let the bitterness die tonight. Make a decision today that it’s time to move on. And begin again. New, this time. Never forget that what has passed you by was never meant to befall you. And what has befallen you, was never meant to pass you by. Know that sometimes Allah withholds from you, in order to give you something better. Keep your heart focused on Him, and He will take care of the rest. And remember: you will stumble, but that’s part of the path. Keep going. Keep rising, and refuse to give up.

Restless

It had long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things.

—	Leonardo Da Vinci

Life is a prison

The worldly body is a prison for the believer, not because this life is miserable for the believing soul, but because that soul yearns to be somewhere greater. It yearns to be Home. No matter how wonderful this life is for a believer, it is a prison compared to the Perfect life that awaits them. This soul’s attachment is to God and the true paradise with Him. It wants to be there. But this worldly life is what keeps that soul from returning—for a while. It is the barrier, the prison.

When we 're apart

The joy of meeting and the sorrow of separation … we should welcome these gifts … with our whole soul, and experience to the full, and with the same gratitude, all the sweetness or bitterness as the case may be. Meeting and separation are two forms of friendship that contain the same good, in the one case through pleasure and in the other through sorrow… Soon there will be distance between us. Let us love this distance which is wholly woven of friendship, for those who do not love each other are not separated.

Religion is Important in Love.

If you marry someone who loves Allah, they will fear disobeying Allah and do all they can to please Allah. So you can rest assured that you will be taken care of, because your partner knows your heart was created by Allah.. And they wouldn’t dare break a creation as precious as that

Internet addiction

I’m not interested in trying to make a single person think the way I do, anymore. What a silly thing. But, I will put forth this food for thought: people are complex mish-mashes of positive and negative, for the most part. The real enemy, to my mind, is Facebook, who’s already copped to singling out negative posts and presenting them to you with the expressed intent of pissing you off and having you subsequently post more negativity. Why is this done? Because rage is a drug, like any other. You get a little endorphin rush every time you get pissed. They have crowd sourced a stimulant, using algorithms instead of chemistry. When faceless corporations have commodified my rage, my rebellion will be relentless positivity. I will choose to be happy and sane in spite of everything. I will focus on what I can control. I will donate money to the causes I believe in and help in what little way I can. But now I refuse to be angry on the internet, because every time I do that an ant crawls out of my virtual mouth and joins the horde already stacking and forming into something like an entity, the iboga tree man’s evil twin, not here to rid you of an addiction to a substance but rather to create an addiction where there is no substance whatsoever.

I LOVE YOU

When I say “I love you,” its not because I want you or because I can’t have you. It has nothing to do with me. I love what you are, what you do, and how you try. I’ve seen your kindness and your strength. I’ve seen the best and the worst of you. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what and who you are.

Its okay

I have a tendency to say this when someone apologizes to me .Even though it's not okay , I still say i don't want to push situation further and further.I don't want to it worse then it has to be.. But you know what ? it's not okay. What you did it's not okay and i am not going to pretend that its anymore. I know that sometimes its best to forgive and forget but sometimes maybe it's best to just forget.

Men of quality Respect women's equality

There's special place in my heart for a women who respect themselves.There are a several characteristic that men what in their life partner but the women with respect and dignity is the women who is the best mother of your future children. I don't know about you but i reckon that a women who doesn't respect herself comes of with bit more pitiful than a men who doesn't respect himself.Men are the dominant ones, but as they say, "behind every powerful man is a powerful woman". It should be, "more powerful woman," since men of high status are often influenced, if not controlled by self-respecting women who are also in power.If you don't respect yourself, you can never get that man to hop off the fence and come to your side of the field for good. Start off with small "no's", until you get more confident. By then, the respect is re-calibrated on both sides. If you think about it, if you respect yourself and know your own self worth, only then will you know the way that you deserve to be treated in a relationship. You should never settle for relationships that are not good for you and that make you lose your confidence and respect for yourself. Self respect and self worth are highly attractive attributes in a woman. If you value yourself, men will be much more likely to do the same.

"Its a man's job to respect a woman ,but its a woman's job to give him something to respect."

Do it right and with your heart

No matter what you do sweeping the streets, running a corporation, or the work of a stay-at-home mom  your job is more than a job.
This means that whatever you do, you are to do it with enthusiasm. If your heart is not in it, you are in the wrong job. If you are not working with all your heart, you are sinning.

Deficient Life

I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because she was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together .

Eternal Sunshine of the spotless mind

How happy is the blameless vestal's lot
The world forgetting by the world forgot
Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind
Each prayer accepted and each wish resigned

Incomplete

Odd makes even and even makes odd everyone one is incomplete with or without someone its just you are waiting for the imperfect person who makes you perfect and you make him a better human so just wait for the perfect person for your imperfect , lonely , never ending life rather than giving someone chance who can never be your fraction …just wait you will get chane till then stay undivided …fractionless…. 

Love is confusing

and it’s hard to watch things change when all you want is for them to stay the same. it’s funny but stupid how you want everything and nothing at the same time. it’s crazy when you want to let go,but you keep holding, and when you want to move on, you’re stuck right where you started. when feelings come and go you can’t decide what you want.when you have so many things to say but you don’t know where to start. when you want them in your life so bad but all you can do is push them farther and farther away. it’s so hard to think back to how things used to be and look at it now and realize that things are different and may never be the same. you tell yourself it’s not worth it, but if it really didn't matter,you wouldn't spend so much time thinking about it.